{"id":3184,"date":"2014-11-25T10:00:23","date_gmt":"2014-11-25T15:00:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/?p=3184"},"modified":"2018-12-12T11:07:41","modified_gmt":"2018-12-12T16:07:41","slug":"white-elephant-exchanges","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/white-elephant-exchanges\/","title":{"rendered":"Why I Don&#8217;t Do White Elephant or Dirty Santa Games"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-9809 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Why-I-Dont-Do-White-Elephant-or-Dirty-Santa-Games.png\" alt=\"Why dirty Santa and white elephant exchanges might not make everyone's holiday happy.\" width=\"600\" height=\"900\" srcset=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Why-I-Dont-Do-White-Elephant-or-Dirty-Santa-Games.png 600w, https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Why-I-Dont-Do-White-Elephant-or-Dirty-Santa-Games-200x300.png 200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t do White Elephant Exchanges or Dirty Santa games.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to steal someone else\u2019s gift.<\/p>\n<p>And I\u2019d rather not be the butt of someone\u2019s joke.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not sure the when or how these games made the cross-over from Christmas office parties to Sunday school fellowships, Youth Group parties, and Women\u2019s Ministry events, but <strong>I wish they never had.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Did we somehow forget the 8th commandment, &#8220;thou shall not steal&#8221;?!\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Exodus+20%3A+1-17&amp;version=HCSB\">(See Exodus 20:15.)<\/a><\/p>\n<h4>White elephant and dirty Santa games have no place at our church events.<\/h4>\n<p>I readily admit I participated in my fair share when I belonged to a mommy group (not church-related) back in the day.<\/p>\n<p>I have seen grown women cry over gifts that were \u201cstolen\u201d from them.<\/p>\n<p>I have watched women whimper when a gift they really wanted was taken away.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve seen moms want to die of embarrassment.<\/p>\n<p>Friendships were tested.<\/p>\n<p>And it <em>broke my heart and made me ashamed<\/em> to have been a part of it.<\/p>\n<h4>Our churches should not be a place of embarrassment or intentional hurt.<\/h4>\n<p>It\u2019s just not worth it for a few laughs.<\/p>\n<p>No gift is worth making someone feel worthless.<\/p>\n<p>Whether the goal is stealing gifts to get the best gift or trying to end up with the best of the gag gifts, <strong>neither feels very Christ-like.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h5>Games that undermine the unity of our groups or hurt the feelings of our women have no place in our ministries.<\/h5>\n<p>God\u2019s given us a great opportunity at Christmas to love others. Let&#8217;s do it well!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Consider one of these alternative ideas and promote unity and goodwill among your women.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-9808 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/12-Alternativess-to-Dirty-Santa-Games.png\" alt=\"Check out these great alternatives to dirty Santa games.\" width=\"600\" height=\"900\" srcset=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/12-Alternativess-to-Dirty-Santa-Games.png 600w, https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/12-Alternativess-to-Dirty-Santa-Games-200x300.png 200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<h4>12 Alternatives to Dirty Santa Games<\/h4>\n<p>1. Host a <strong>Favorite Things Party<\/strong> \u2013 Pinterest is loaded with ideas. I like the way\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/briblakney.blogspot.com\/2013\/02\/joli-womens-ministry-favorite-things.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Bri did this with the women at\u00a0her church<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>2. Give gifts to your <strong>homebound Members\/Local Nursing Home\/Women\u2019s Shelter.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>3. <strong>Ask everyone to bring a $5 gift<\/strong> and use the <a href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/christmas-left-right-game\/\">Left-Right Christmas Story<\/a> or <a href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/left-right-nativity-game\/\">Left Right Nativity\u00a0story<\/a> to distribute the gifts.<\/p>\n<p>4. Ask everyone to bring a $5 ornament and have an <strong><a title=\"Ornament Exchange\" href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/ornament-exchange\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ornament exchange<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>5. Have an <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/host-operation-christmas-child-packing-party\/\">Operation Christmas Child Packing Party<\/a><\/strong>, in early November unless you live near a processing center.<\/p>\n<p>6. Give the gift of time and <strong>volunteer together<\/strong> at a local food pantry, shelter, or Ronald McDonald House.<\/p>\n<p>7, <strong>Decorate Christmas cookies or cupcakes<\/strong> to take to the local hospital for the nurses.<\/p>\n<p>8, <strong>Plan a Christmas party for your local Women\u2019s shelter<\/strong> or children\u2019s home and give them each a bag filled with toiletries and treats.<\/p>\n<p>9. <strong>Adopt children in need from a local school.<\/strong> Spend the wrapping their gifts and writing our Christmas cards for them.<\/p>\n<p>10, <strong>Send packages overseas<\/strong> to men and women serving in the military.<\/p>\n<p>11. <strong>Bless a missionary<\/strong> with a care package and Christmas cards.<\/p>\n<p>12. Assemble\u00a0the<strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/the-gift-of-no-dishes-free-printable\/\">Gift of No Dishes<\/a> <\/strong>together as an outreach into each woman&#8217;s neighborhood.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Before you consider me a Scrooge, please take a moment to read the comments women have posted below.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Feelings really do get hurt by white elephant and dirty Santa games.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not worth the risk.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You may also want to check out:<br \/>\n<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/women-wounded-by-the-church\/\">How to Love on Women Who Have Been Wounded by the Church<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"31 Christmas Fellowship Ideas\" href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/31-christmas-fellowship-ideas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">31 Christmas Fellowship Ideas<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"10 Tips for Your Christmas Coffee\" href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/christmas-coffee\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">10 Tips for Your Christmas Coffee <\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"Icebreaker: Christmas Connection (Free Printable)\" href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/christmas-connection\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Icebreaker: Christmas Connection <\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"Icebreaker: Christmas Roll &amp; Poll (Free Printable)\" href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/christmas-roll-poll\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Christmas Roll &amp; Poll<br \/>\n<\/a><a title=\"Icebreaker: The Great Christmas Candy Pass\" href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/christmas-candy-pass\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Icebreaker: The Great Christmas Candy Pass<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"Christmas Icebreaker: Pick a Side\" href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/christmas-icebreaker-pick-a-side\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Christmas Icebreaker: Pick-a-Side<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/view.flodesk.com\/pages\/5f243fdad78ced0026f8345d\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-9307\" src=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/subscribe-button-2018-new-fonts.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"590\" height=\"95\" srcset=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/subscribe-button-2018-new-fonts.png 590w, https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/subscribe-button-2018-new-fonts-300x48.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 590px) 100vw, 590px\" \/>&#8216;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t do White Elephant Exchanges or Dirty Santa games.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9809,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","advgb_blocks_editor_width":"","advgb_blocks_columns_visual_guide":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[65,409],"tags":[242],"class_list":["post-3184","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-christmas","category-christmas-events","tag-christmas"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.2 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Why I Don&#039;t Do White Elephant or Dirty Santa Games - Women&#039;s Ministry Toolbox<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Some things to consider before planning a Dirty Santa or White Elephant game for your church event. 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