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\"How<\/p>\n

I had a leader email me recently requesting advice on dealing with cliques.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately this problem is all too common. Whenever a group of women gathers together smaller groups are bound to form.<\/p>\n

As leaders we want to see our women bond and new relationships form.<\/p>\n

But when those groups of women become \u201ca small group of people, with shared interests or other features in common, who spend time together and do not readily allow others to join them<\/em>\u201d (as defined by Oxford Dictionary)\u00a0we have a problem\u2026<\/p>\n

How can we keep cliques from harming our ministry?<\/h4>\n

1. Be intentional about grouping women<\/a><\/strong> at our events. Pre-select small groups and discussion groups (separating those that need to be separated). Whenever possible, don\u2019t let them chose their own groups!<\/p>\n

2. Use icebreakers<\/strong> to get women interacting with those outside of their normal group. Place stickers on their name tags, distribute colored cards, etc. to place them into groups for games.<\/p>\n

3. Remind women to be welcoming<\/strong>. Encourage them to talk to someone they haven\u2019t met before the event is over. Women forget what it\u2019s like to be the new girl<\/a>.<\/p>\n

4. Pray boldly<\/strong> that God would make women aware of the effect of their actions. That He would soften hearts towards others in the group. That women would not feel excluded. For protection of your women and your ministry. Pray for unity.<\/p>\n

\"God<\/p>\n

5. Prayerfully seek out a member of the clique<\/strong> that may understand your concerns. Assume that their exclusion of others unintentional. Your approach must be one of concern and love. Lovingly share your concerns (without \u201couting\u201d the women who\u2019ve felt slighted) and then wait and pray that God will bring about a change.<\/p>\n

6. If you are dealing with \u201cmean girls\u201d seek your Pastor\u2019s advice<\/strong>. Discuss whether or not the group needs to be confronted and how. He may have information that will lead to a greater understanding of the situation. He may also need to be present for that discussion if deemed necessary.<\/p>\n

7. Set up a new small group ministry<\/strong>, such as Sister Six<\/a>, which places women in new groups for 6 months of fun and fellowship. Or maybe you need to add small group interest groups (exercise, walking, scrapbooking, knitting, book club, etc.) to bring women with like interests together.<\/p>\n

8. Put guidelines in place for online communication<\/strong> your ministry uses \u2013 prevent mass emails to the whole group. Block messages and posts if necessary.<\/p>\n

9. Have a training session on cliques<\/strong> with your Women\u2019s Ministry Team. Sometimes our teams are perceived as cliques! Discuss if this is a problem your ministry is facing and brainstorm ways it can be addressed.<\/p>\n

10. Accept the fact<\/strong> that women are going to group up and not everyone is going to click. Pray and seek wise counsel to make certain you are not making a bigger deal out of it than it really is. Sometimes our perceptions are not accurate.<\/p>\n

Truth be told, it\u2019s highly unlikely we\u2019ll be able to rid our ministries of cliques.<\/h5>\n

It\u2019s one of many ways Satan works to sabotage the work that we are doing.<\/p>\n

With prayer, grace, and intervention, I do believe we can reduce the harm caused.<\/p>\n

Your turn to share: Are cliques a problem at your church? Do you have any advice on dealing with them?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You may also want to read:
\n<\/strong>How to Divide Women into Groups<\/a>
\n10 Ways We Unknowingly Hurt Women in the Church<\/a>
\n10 Things Icebreakers Should Not Do<\/a>
\nWhy I Don’t Do White Elephant Exhanges<\/a>
\nThe Biggest Mistake Women’s Ministry Teams Make<\/a><\/p>\n

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