{"id":13485,"date":"2022-01-12T03:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-01-12T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/?p=13485"},"modified":"2022-01-10T15:01:22","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T20:01:22","slug":"where-have-all-the-mentors-gone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/where-have-all-the-mentors-gone\/","title":{"rendered":"Where have all the mentors gone?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-default\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Where-have-all-the-mentors-gone.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"900\" src=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Where-have-all-the-mentors-gone.png\" alt=\"Where have all the mentors gone? Let\u2019s remove these three reasons women are reluctant to serve as a mentor. Includes two mentoring resource recommendations.\" class=\"wp-image-13486\" srcset=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Where-have-all-the-mentors-gone.png 600w, https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Where-have-all-the-mentors-gone-200x300.png 200w, https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Where-have-all-the-mentors-gone-400x600.png 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><a>Below you&#8217;ll find the transcript for episode 36, Where have all the mentors gone?, from the\u00a0<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/podcast\/\">Women&#8217;s Ministry Toolbox Podcast<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:12px\">Please note: This post contains affiliate links.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Intro: Welcome to the Women&#8217;s Ministry Toolbox Podcast. I&#8217;m Cyndee Ownbey, your host and women&#8217;s ministry mentor.\u00a0 I&#8217;m the founder of Women&#8217;s Ministry Toolbox and the author of\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/39FBz5t\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Rethinking Women&#8217;s Ministry<\/em><\/a><em>. The Women&#8217;s Ministry Toolbox Podcast is a podcast for women&#8217;s ministry leaders and team members of all stages (from new to seasoned) serving in their local church community. If you&#8217;re looking for hope and inspiration, you&#8217;ve come to the right place! In addition to discussing the nuts and bolts of women&#8217;s ministry, I&#8217;ll be asking seasoned women&#8217;s ministry leaders to share their best tips and the lessons they&#8217;ve learned. Together we&#8217;ll learn to build a flourishing, Christ-focused women&#8217;s ministry.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">We\u2019re continuing our series on discipleship today by taking a look at the lack of mentors.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Before we dig in, I want to review the definition of mentoring I shared in <a href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/difference-between-discipleship-bible-studies-and-mentoring\/\">episode 28<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I define mentoring as <strong>the relationship between two believers which provides biblically <\/strong>sound guidance. The mentor is more spiritually mature and often older than the mentee. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some mentoring relationships are focused on spiritual growth and include Bible study. Often mentoring relationships are focused on living life in a way that honors God. The focus could even be on learning practical skills like cooking. Mentoring often addresses seasonal needs (such as mothering young children and navigating the empty nest). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The mentor and mentee might use a resource to guide their time together. Mentoring should include regular in-person meetings, whether that be weekly, monthly, or somewhere in between.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">I regularly hear rumors that women are looking for mentors but the women they ask say no. <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Just last week I came across a comment on IG where a woman shared that she had approached 5 women to mentor her and every single one said no. I don\u2019t know the details, but I still find it heartbreaking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What prevents women from saying yes when asked to serve as a mentor?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s talk through what those barriers might be as well as some ways to remove those barriers so women are more likely to say yes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3 Reasons Women are Reluctant to Serve as a Mentor<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Don\u2019t feel equipped.<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Many potential mentors admit they <strong>don\u2019t feel qualified to teach someone else.<\/strong> \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>They don\u2019t know how to teach someone else to read the Bible because they don\u2019t know how to read the Bible on their own.<\/li><li>They don\u2019t know how to teach someone to pray, because they struggle to pray.<\/li><li>They don\u2019t feel equipped to share their testimony (or story) of how they came to know Christ as their personal Savior so they aren&#8217;t confident in leading someone else to Christ.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Every one of those skills can be taught. Our women\u2019s ministry programs are the perfect place for women to learn how to read the Bible on their own (check out my <a href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/read-bible-study-for-groups\/\">READ Bible Study for Groups<\/a>), how to pray (check out my <a href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolboxshop.com\/collections\/bible-study\/products\/prayer-warrior-boot-camp-for-groups\">Prayer Warrior Boot Camp for Groups<\/a>), and how to share their faith stories (<a href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/how-to-share\/\">see this posts<\/a>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Perhaps your team needs to spend a year preparing women to mentor before launching a mentoring program.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. They feel they don\u2019t have the time.<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Most of us have time to spend on the things that are important to us. The excuse of time could be an <strong>issue of priorities<\/strong> or it could be <strong>consequences of a busy season<\/strong> in life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>A potential mentor may be dividing their time between a job, husband, aging parents, and grandbabies.<\/li><li>A potential mentor may need a perspective shift \u2013 mentoring can be done while doing life. Invite your mentee to go to the grocery store, cook dinner with you, or sit at a soccer game together.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>If we are truly committed to being Titus 2 women, we can make and find the time.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Years ago three of us spent about two months praying weekly for an upcoming women\u2019s ministry conference. I am not an early bird, but the one time we could find to work with all three schedules was 6 AM. We were all able to return home before husbands left and children needed to get off to school. It was a sacrifice for a season, but those mornings were some of the sweetest prayer times. And there was a lot of mentoring happening during the early morning sessions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Ad:<\/em> <em>Do you feel like something\u2019s missing in your women\u2019s ministry? Are you struggling to reach every age group? Is your attendance lacking? Your ministry may need a makeover. The <strong>Women\u2019s Ministry Makeover Training<\/strong> takes leaders through the 4 phases of the women\u2019s ministry makeover process helping them to identify specific areas that may need to be renoed, demoed, or added. God wants our women\u2019s ministry programs to be fruitful and flourish, but we have to be willing to peel back the carpet and wield a paintbrush to transform our ministry into His vision. I\u2019ll be opening the doors for the Women\u2019s Ministry Makeover Training in mid-January 2022. To get on the <a href=\"https:\/\/view.flodesk.com\/pages\/613a27a17accb4c0210202eb\">waitlist click here<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. They are afraid.<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>They may be <strong>afraid to share their failures<\/strong> with another woman.<\/li><li>They may be afraid their mentee will <strong>discover the lack of depth<\/strong> in their spiritual walk. \u00a0<\/li><li>They may be <strong>afraid of getting in over their head<\/strong>.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Most of these fears and others you might be thinking of are rooted in pride. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Mentees rarely expect a mentor to have all the answers. They expect mentors to point them to the One that has all the answers \u2013 God.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>It can be helpful to remember, <strong>mentors are not counselors<\/strong>. Few have the degree or the training. Mentors are good listeners. They may ask thought-provoking questions. Mentors don\u2019t have to offer advice (unless there is a real safety issue such as in the case of abuse). <strong>They make referrals to counselors<\/strong> and other services that are qualified and trained to help in those areas that they are not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">In addition to equipping our women on the front end to mentor, we can also use mentoring materials to guide the mentoring process.<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Many years ago the women\u2019s ministry team in the church I was serving in set up a separate team to launch a mentoring program. We spent months reviewing a large number of resources. We passed them around, listed out the pros and cons for our church, and covered the entire process in prayer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The number of mentoring resources can be a bit overwhelming.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are two mentoring resources I want to offer up for your prayerful consideration. While both might be considered discipleship, I view them as more mentoring-focused. Scripture anchors both, but the focus is on growing not just in knowledge but in relationship with one another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The first mentoring resource I\u2019d suggest your team consider is <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3FcUotV\" rel=\"sponsored nofollow\">Growing Together: Taking Mentoring Beyond Small Talk and Prayer Requests<\/a> by Melissa Kruger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Growing Together offers 9 chapters of curriculum for mentors and mentees. As Melissa explains in the introduction (page 9), the curriculum cycles through topics about relationship with God, living in community as believers, and our engagement in the world. Each chapter concludes with questions for the mentor and mentee to discuss. Meeting monthly participants would complete the book in 9 months.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can find a more detailed <a href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/book-review-growing-together\/\">review of Growing Together here<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The second resource that I\u2019d suggest you add to your review list is <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/33k83C0\" rel=\"sponsored nofollow\">Flourish<\/a>. It\u2019s a resource created by Passion City Church. Flourish is a one-year commitment. Mentors and mentees will each need a Flourish Journal. Year 1 of the Flourish program (two have been released so far) explores what God\u2019s Word says about prayer, identity, calling, kinship, and gratitude. Each week includes 5 scripture readings and journaling prompts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Both resources can be used for one-on-one mentoring or in a small group format.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve compiled a list of <a href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/mentoring-programs-resources\/\">additional mentoring resources<\/a> here to help you in your search. I\u2019ll post the link in the show notes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>As with all resources, please vet them thoroughly against God\u2019s Word and the beliefs of your church.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As we encourage our women to live out the call to be Titus 2 women, may our search for solid resources reflect <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=titus+1%3A1&amp;version=ESV\">Titus 1:1<\/a> which says, \u201cBut as for you, teach what accords with sound doctrine.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Today\u2019s Toolbox Tasks<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" type=\"1\"><li>Make a <strong>list of the mentoring barriers<\/strong> women in your church may need to overcome.<\/li><li><strong>Make a plan<\/strong> for preparing women to serve as mentors.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Even if your team has no plans to implement a formal mentoring program, we have a responsibility to equip our women to successfully live as Titus 2 women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>I pray this episode has challenged us to make sure that our women feel equipped to mentor others.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>You may also want to read:<\/strong><br><a href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/mentoring-programs-resources\/\">Mentoring Resources and Programs<\/a><br><a href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/read-bible-study-for-groups\/\">READ Bible Study for Groups<\/a><br><a href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolboxshop.com\/collections\/bible-study\/products\/prayer-warrior-boot-camp-for-groups\">Prayer Warrior Boot Camp for Groups<\/a><br><a href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/difference-between-discipleship-bible-studies-and-mentoring\/\">What\u2019s the difference between discipleship, Bible studies, and mentoring?<\/a><br>S<a href=\"https:\/\/womensministrytoolbox.com\/selecting-discipleship-mentoring-and-bible-study-materials\/\">electing Discipleship, Bible Study, and Mentoring Materials<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Below you&#8217;ll find the transcript for episode 36, Where have all the mentors gone?, from the\u00a0Women&#8217;s Ministry Toolbox Podcast. 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